Monday, January 23, 2012

Inside A Mind of A Modern Woman

If I like my nails colored in RED and my lips painted with the same color, it does not mean I am a whore or someone whose very job is selling what's "down under" for money. The color looks good on me. So, if I were you, mind your own business.

If I like my shorts and skirts SHORT, don't you dare say I am asking for it. I am not exposing any private part from my waist down so, beat it and stop drooling like a rabid dog, you pervert!

If I like my dresses SEXY and a bit REVEALING, it does not automatically signify that I am cheap. I have the right to wear any piece of clothing man has ever made and designed as you have the right to eat, breathe and live. My little black dress would neither cause a war nor a catastrophe so, stop looking at it like it's a curse form hell. I know how to dress myself within the bounds of decency and morality. And I dress according to what the occasion calls for.

If I like to put on my MAKE-UP and look GOOD, it does not mean that my face is the only thing that I could offer. Those expensive palettes and the effort putting them on boosts my confidence on the darkest hours of my life while facing the most demanding and nasty creatures ever created.

If I strut with my killer HEELS on; NO, it does denote that I am a hooker getting late for an "appointment". Those painstaking heels help me achieve a good posture. It makes me look graceful while I balance myself in an upright position.

If I go out in my COUTURE-LIKE ENSEMBLE and my COIFFURE, it does not indicate that "what you see is what you get." There is more to me than meets your eye.

If I go out and have a little FUN, don't you even think that that is all I can do. I work hard but, I party harder. I deserve a break from all the stressors I get to face on a daily basis.

If I am being FRIENDLY, don't you dare think that I am being FLIRTY. They are two different words. Go check the dictionary so that tiny and prehistoric brain of yours could learn something.

If I want to FLIRT, do not get the idea that all I want to do is to have sex with any guy I meet in the soonest possible time. Flirting a little spices up things but, I am in control and I am way ahead of you in the game that we are playing.

If I am comfortable with my SEXUALITY, do not get me wrong. Sexuality encompasses an individual's gender identity and expression and not just the sexual behavior, preferences and orientation.

If I SAY what's on my MIND, it does not imply that I am tactless or that I am a nagger. I have a voice that needs to be heard. And you are either deaf because you can't hear me or maybe you're just narrow-minded.

If I ASK too many questions, it does not stand for "BLONDE DUMB WOMAN". First and foremost, I am not blonde. Second, I am intelligent. And third, my curios and brilliant mind feeds my intelligence.

If I KNOW what I WANT and have my way to it; honey, it does not connote that I am a hardheaded spoiled brat. I work my ass out to earn what I have and be where I want to be.

If I DEPEND on myself, it does not mean that I am a lone wolf. I am INDEPENDENT and I do not rely on those people who clearly just can't get the job done.

If I want a MAN'S work, do not give me that "you're a woman and you can't do this" sexist declaration. I am a woman and I am as capable as you are. Do not look down on me. I may be the person you need to get the job done.

I am a WOMAN living in the twenty-first century. But don't you dare see a weakling. I speak. I think. I fight. While feeling and looking good.

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